Monday, April 28, 2008

What to Teach

I'm trying to read engage the students into poetry.

But they are talking about their jobs, and paying for insurance, and their friend (a classmate) who drinks too much, and their dad who took their car even though it's not his.

And I'm trying to engage them in poetry.

Miracles?

"For the things we have to learn before we can do them, we learn by doing them." - Aristotle
We love those who know the worst of us and don't turn away. - Walter Percy

Some of the things that "God did" in the Bible can be explained by natural processes. An entire army dying overnight before the battle... some disease or poison could have overtaken them.

But some things cannot be explained with reason. Things like the separation of languages at the Tower of Babel. There is no natural explanation for languages changing overnight. There is however, the possibility of languages evolving within groups of people so that, over time, the groups could not understand each other.

Why can't I believe? If my reality depends on my thoughts, then everything is up to only me. And what do I do when I'm truly depressed? My negative thoughts must be creating my reality, so depression is self-perpetuating and, as such, how does a person escape.

Photography Quotes

After all the error rests in the mistaken idea that the subject of a [photograph] is the object [photographed]. Robert Henri

(My idea: photography is capturing a timeless moment... not any old moment. A snapshot captures your daughters birthday, a photograph captures all children's birthdays.)

I don't think there is any such thing as detachment when you're photographing. You have a point of view and if you haven't, your pictures don't show anything about the people you are working with. Eve Arnold

In the end, the relationships we form with each other and with the people we photograph are much more important than stories or pictures. Erich Lessin

Life isn't made of stories that you cut into slices like an apple pie. There's no standard way of approaching a story. We have to evoke a situation, a truth. This is the poetry of life's reality. Henri Cartier-Bresson

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Sun, April 27, 2008

Our daughter was born a fighter. What a difficult child she has been. We comfort / console / calm ourselves by saying that she will surely become something great--she will surely grow up to use her great strength for something good--she will fight for something good. But, of course, that won't happen. You grow no further than the circle you were born into. She will grow to lead a life just like all those in our circle of family and friends. The exceptions to this rule are so rare that they are mythological--the stuff of fairy tales and inspirational stories.

God does not talk to you through the songs on the radio. A God as great as the Bible claims cannot heal people or talk to those you claim he deeply loves. The best he can do is manipulate what is playing on the radio and when you happen to turn it on?
But then, of course, he did just that. Sunday, at 11:41am, driving to school, pressed "Seek", the radio passed four or five popular stations and stopped at 101.9 KINK. "Anything's Possible" by Jonny Lang was playing. Uh, is that you, God? 'Cuz I'm not sure I believe you talk to people.

All the joy is gone. And I am empty. The only happiness comes in the early, early morning when I am lying in bed, having yet to fall asleep, and I think about not living anymore. A shadow of happiness falls across my heart. I relax and hope I fall asleep and dream of such happiness.

People are forever expecting to suddenly explode. But no one does. People hold to the belief that all the suffering from childhood to adulthood / a life of suffering only means that one day they will have a sudden chrysalis. But the long-awaited explosion never comes. No one ever experiences a sudden chrysalis. What we do get, however, is more suffering; more time struggling against the bonds of the cocoon.

Sun, April 27, 2008

How to Practice The Way to a Meaningful Life - Dalai Lama
The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success - Deepak Chopra
Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life - Wayne Dyer
http://www.youcanhealyourlifemovie.com/
Every thought we think and every word we speak is creating our future. If you change your thinking, you can change your life.
If affecting change were as simply as the innumerous books claim, would we need so many books? If Wayne Dyer has answers, why does he need to continually write books?

Stop and ask yourself, "What am I thinking? Would I like this thought to create my life?"

I am willing to change.
I am willing to forgive.

GRATITUDE:
The healing power of gratitude.
http://www.juniorattractors.com/index.php (gratitude dance)

GIVING, KINDNESS:
Giving, receiving, seeing Kindness releases seratonin.

FINDING PURPOSE:
http://www.escapefromcubiclenation.com/get_a_life_blog/defining_the_work_you_are_meant_to_do/index.html
http://www.escapefromcubiclenation.com/get_a_life_blog/2007/05/takeaways_from_.html

What do you love, love, love? Think of the photographers: Ansel Adams, Chase Jarvis, Sergio (http://www.sergiophotographer.com/). They absolutely love what they do. They it so much, they love every part. They get up early to do it. They do it when it doesn't pay. They are (perhaps inadvertently) practicing the principles (see: http://www.escapefromcubiclenation.com/get_a_life_blog/defining_the_work_you_are_meant_to_do/index.html) that bring success.

Sun, April 27, 2008

Photographers I love:
http://www.sergiophotographer.com
** Henri Cartier-Bresson
** Sebastiao Salgado
** Richard Avedon
Robert Capa "If your photos aren't good enough, you're not close enough"
*** James Nachtwey (put self in danger, won more awards)

* Mary Ellen Mark
Rebekka G
Didier Massard
Kathleen Connally
eric meola
Steve Highfield
Galen Rowell

http://chasejarvis.com/blog/

PHOTO CONTESTS:
http://www.prophotosupply.com/events/contests.htm

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Sat April 26, 2008

then I gave in and gave up and took up mindless domestic activities.


Most wives life like slaves / lead the life of a slave / lead a barely distinguishable from that of a slave.

:: Coach's Son
beat the crap out of him.
like the neighbor kid. Smart. Knows all the planets in order. "Saul," he yells when he sees me. "Do you know what 5 times 20 is?" I play along and ask what it is. "100" he yells, with a little disgust that I don't know.
 His dad makes him hunt and the little bugger does it, of course. 'cause it's his dad, you know. But I wonder how long that will last.
I escaped the hurt by falling all the way into fantasy world. Which has been impossible to get out of now. Plus I'm lonely all the time.
As long as the majority of the population are deep in Plato's cave, sports will have its weird place of worship and idolatry and completeness. 
Everyone, even the wives, play along. The local paper, the school principal, the students carry on like sport is the only thing that matters. When it matters least. Like everything folks believe, we have repeated the explanation until we all believe it completely. Here's how it goes: "Young people learn leadership and teamwork and discipline and confidence and love and, oh, every good thing (only) playing sports." We don't say the "only", but it's understood.
Of course there is a bit of a problem with the explanation: it's just not true. No matter how you look at it.


Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Which is the bringer of fulfillment: success (from ambition) or enlightenment?

Monday, April 21, 2008

Monday, April 22, 2008

I know my purpose... well, my vocation.

It came to me Saturday night.

Sell subscriptions to my website. $1-a-month. On the site are all my thoughts. Thinking is what I am best at. That is how I should make my living.

Next Action:
detail what is required and the plan

Friday, April 18, 2008

Friday, April 18

(My brother's birthday. More on birthdays later.)

Yes, you can be a teacher with purpose... easily. You can have a purpose to the class, which means, a specific direction the class is heading.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

Thursday, April 17, 2008

A man of purpose is one who does not dabble in whatever distraction crosses his path.

A man of purpose knows the one direction he is heading, and focusing, therefore, is easy.

Stand up, fathers. Stand up.

The appeal of video games is PURPOSE. In the game, you have a specific, significant purpose (albeit a virtual one).

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Wednesday, April 16

The man of purpose is simply a person who is heading in a specific direction.

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Next year I will turn 40. Here's what 40 means: "You had your chance."

"But... but... history is full of stories of people who did something with themselves after 40."

No, history is not "filled" with such stories. Yes, there are some such stories. But whether it is too later or not, 40 feels like too late. And that is the cause of the mid-life crisis: the realization that it's now too late for my dreams. Before, there was still time and hope. Now there is none.

"It's never too late to become what you might have been." George Eliot

Are you sure, George?

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"When we treat man as he is, we make him worse than he is; when we treat him as if he already were what he potentially could be, we make him what he should be." -- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe"

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"I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection." - Sigmund Freud

What is a father to protect his child from? Physical hurt? The dark? Fears? Danger? Hunger? Emotional pain? Weather, cold? Maslow's list? Insults?

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The need for fathers is a predominant theme in these works I recently encountered:

(book) In the Lake of the Woods
(movie) Before the Devil Knows Your Dead
(book) Angela's Ashes
(movie) Castle in the Sky

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A student just showed up to class... over an hour late. His admit slip says, "Excused Tardy". I asked him if he was at some appointment, and he said, "Um, you could say that." I said, "You are an hour late and your mom just excused it?" To which he replied, "What can I say, my mom loves me." I said, "Maybe your mom could do that for work," and he said, "No. Work really matters."

Nice job, mom. Your message has gotten through.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

I am washed out to sea, and I don't care.

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Where are the men? Where are the boys who will become men? Where are the boys who are charming, confident, kind, and purposeful? That is what the world needs, has always needed, and will always most need.

Where are the boys who can laugh, but never at someone's expense? I guess the underlining question here is: where are the boys who Know Themselves? Who are working hard at maturing? Who sweat in their effort to be kind, strong, wise, and better than they were before? Where are the boys who see that this is the real task?

And where, oh where, are their models?

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Well... how do I wish my classes looked?:

  • orderly
  • disciplined
  • purposeful
  • welcoming
  • friendly
  • kind
  • a safe place to try and fail
  • students clean and straighten the room before the bell
  • excitement for learning, writing, reading is contagious

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